Advice... help... please. X-x

[Jarai Telo]

I don't know what the hell to do. I am absolutely freaking out.

I went to a school dance tonight, expecting to see my friend who I've liked for a while. He was as excited to see me as I was. I got his number and everything. But, his ride ditched him so he had to run to catch up, and I told him I'd follow because I wanted to speak to him.

He's fast, I learned. And I had jeans so I wasn't as fast, but I kept up, he slowed down anyway so we could speak. I first of all checked to make sure he wasn't dating. He told me no, and we slowed to a walk. We collided once and I was so surprised I actually apologized. -slaps self- He asked me if there was something I'd like to say, that I was being... "Kinda hesitant." The gate stalled what I wanted to say though.

The gate was closed and so we hopped it. I'm usually good at climbing and jumping fences, but, it was dark and see, so coming down, I slipped. He was there to catch me, as he was helping me find footholds, but, I landed upright anything. His arms were around me when I jumped, just in case, and he pulled back when I didn't need it.

But, I had to stop him and kiss him. Out of the question. Kay? He kissed back, but I made it real quick, cuz, I was freaking out.

"Thank you. What was that for?"

"I kinda, sort of... like you."

And then we got interrupted and got in trouble for jumping the damn gate. The situation slides and he glances at me and says to me, "If you like someone, that's perfectly fine. Hey, my ride's here. I'll see you later." He climbed into a truck that came by and waved off.

I'm so scared. That's not a rejection or an acceptance. Any advice you can give me. I'm so freaked out. I texted him, but he hasn't returned yet. I mean, I'm being... overly cautious, as I don't want to scare him or anything. I... GAH!

X-x Help.

[rc83]

Hm...Well...I've been known to give good advice so, here's a tip.

Don't play the game with any strategy, just play the game. Too fast, too slow, doesn't matter. If, in the end, a feeling is mutual, than it will prevail. If you can get the person to admit they like you back or not, that's when you start playing strategy.

[Kiala]

just take is slow Sqee. If he like's you he will tell you, and if not...not then end of the world. he asked you, and you did tell him..and if he didnt get the message, then try again, just dont rush into it hun, thats all the advice I can give you

[Raynia Nymphet]

I agree with the other advice.... And... don't bug him. Give him space should he need it.